
05: What are Core Emotional Needs? Why are They Important and What Can Happen if They Are Not Met – Dr Gemma Gladstone
- Gemma Gladstone
- June 16, 2020
In this episode Gemma discusses the importance of having our core emotional needs met adequately in early life. What are these needs and what can happen if our parents/primary attachment figures do not meet our needs on a regular basis. Gemma discusses some of the psychological consequences and Schemasthat can develop as a result.
● safety, stability & predictability
● secure, loving, nurturing bond (warmth, validation, ‘being seen’)
● autonomy & growing independence
● expression of emotions, needs, thoughts (allowance of authenticity)
● spontaneity, creativity & play
● realistic limits, self-discipline, impulse control